Who are you?
My name is Paola. I was born and raised in Sicily, an island in the middle of the Mediterranean, influenced by many cultures and a place where people have historically come and crossed paths. As islanders, we have a fascination and fantasy for the horizons, dreaming of other lands. As a kid, I always dreamed of traveling. I had the chance to participate in exchange programs in Canada and Australia as a teenager. These experiences ignited my passion for living in different places and understanding not only the bright sides of where people live but also what they struggle with, their needs, desires, and hopes. This passion led me to study anthropology in London. My studies covered a broad range of topics, including health, environment, culture, objects, spirituality, and what it means to be human. Learning about people and the complexities of our societies has been a way for me to learn about myself as well. I discovered many insights that contradicted what I was raised to believe, which was challenging at times. However, it helped me understand systemic violence and consider solutions to complex issues. For the past year and a half, I’ve been working for a tech non-profit that supports survivors of gender-based violence which is named CHAYN. I try to integrate all of my learnings into this work, offering multi-language resources and transmitting feminist values. We focus on what it means to be anti-colonial, anti-oppressive, and anti-capitalist in our daily lives.
Can you tell me about an environmental issue that affects you?
An environmental topic that is very important to me is the issue of water scarcity in Sicily, where I live. Growing up in the South of Italy, I have witnessed the increasing struggles with drought and the suffering of the land due to a lack of water. It's a situation that has worsened over time. In my own life, I’ve made changes to reduce waste and conserve water at home. I also talk to my family about the importance of water conservation and the impact of animal agriculture on water resources. I feel like I’m watching things die and slip through my hands, but I’m trying not to give in to fear and hopelessness. Instead, I’m focusing on finding communities and ways to come together. I’ve been part of the permaculture network in Sicily, where we meet twice a year to plan initiatives to address these issues. I am passionate about bringing ecofeminism to this region and am committed to doing something meaningful to address water scarcity. I also want to document what has been happening to our land. It's important to me to approach this work with dignity, even more in the face of green capitalism, which often exploits the land further by burning it to install solar panel farms. I love this land deeply, and I’m trying to honor it and give back, even though it is currently suffering.
What is it like to be a woman in Sicily?
Being a woman in Sicily comes with many expectations and societal pressures. Sicilian culture encapsulates a lot of patriarchal and misogynistic beliefs. Growing up, there were clear definitions of what a woman should be. We were expected to act conservatively, dress a certain way, and avoid spending too much time with boys. I often played with boys and was called "masculazza", which is kind of a derogatory term for "tomboy." Over time, I deconstructed my own ideas of what it means to be a woman or a man. After breaking many of these societal rules, I no longer hide who I am. I am queer and genderfluid and I am proud of that. I hear comments like, "Oh, but you're not like the other women," or "Oh, but you're not a real woman”, unsure if these are meant to be compliments or offensive observations. These remarks open up many questions for me. What does it mean to be a woman? I hear other women say things like, "I can't go to the beach today because I'm not shaved." It makes me wonder, is this really what it means to be a woman in Sicily—being imprisoned by societal expectations and missing out on life’s joys because of body hair? I don't mind not shaving anymore, and I feel free. After spending time abroad, I returned to Sicily with a desire to transmit my experiences and knowledge. I didn’t want to feel like I was abandoning the younger people here, as I often felt a lack of inspiring figures when I was growing up. Even if I don't do it intentionally, just by being myself and sharing my views on taboo topics like sexuality, menstruation and mental health, I hope to make a difference and help others. In my journey, I’ve learned to view my body as an ecosystem, similar to how we should approach nature—protecting, nourishing, and understanding it. This realization came to me after years of trying to control my body. I used to hate my menstrual cycle and wished I could be more like men, constantly active and productive. It wasn’t until I re-immersed myself in my Sicilian culture during the pandemic that I began to understand the beauty of our natural cycles and the importance of rest and slowing down, of honoring the ebb and flow of the seasons. This deconstruction of beliefs has been a powerful process for me, helping me understand what it truly means to be a woman, a human, a living being.